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Tracey - 2004-10-06 15:26:11
You could lock it... or you could change usernames... I dunno. It sucks when people find out about your diary on here... I've had that happen to me... I dread thinking about my boyfriend finding my current diary... that could be devastating. Oh... and the promising not to cut... i made that promise once... worst thing i ever did because then when/if you slip up they have the right to be mad because you promised... yeah. ::sigh:: well i hope all goes okay for you.
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Starke - 2004-10-07 00:14:36
I didn't want to say this before, because you were so upset and I didn't want to make it seem like I think what he did is right. When people practice BDSM, they have a safe word that they say when it's becoming too much. Resistance is often part of the game, so saying stop and please and begging and crying is just part of it all. You have to have a word to say so that the person will know that you really want them to stop. You also need to talk to each other right away and set clear boundaries. After that, if he crosses them and if he ignores your safe word--then you know he's trouble and you need to get away. I'm glad to see you guys worked it out.
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